So my question for the media watchdog groups who are so concerned about how Rihanna is tainting the young children of America with portraying an honest view of what sexual violence looks like: what has been your answer to fixing this problem so the need to talk about it changes? What work have you done with domestic and sexual abuse centers? What have you done to educate these children about how you shouldn’t rape ? How have you prepared yourself and your children for the violence that awaits one out of three women? How are you addressing that rape extends beyond a “woman’s issue” and affects men and those who may carry the utilities of womanhood, yet don’t define themselves as women ? How are you making the playing field even for the valuing of all bodies?

Go ahead, I’ll wait.